Im so over Netflix and chill. Im so done with being asked to watch a movie. I have zero interest in being asked to . I dont want you to ask me when Im free or if Im bored and want to do something. I dont want any of that.
No one wants to be asked to casually hangout at someones house the first time theyre hanging out alone. That is sleazy and not appealing. I dont want to sit awkwardly on your couch or lay in your bed to watch a movie; if I wanted to do that I could sit on my own couch in the comfort of my own home.
Men, is asking her on a date really that hard to do? Is it that difficult to say, Would you like to go to dinner with me? or breakfast, or get coffee, or literally anything that involves plans and going out.
If Im spending my time talking to you, obviously Im interested in you. I dont do it to occupy myself, I dont do it because Im feeling lonely or bored. Im not doing it for any reason other than I find you interesting and I want to get to know you better. So, yes, I obviously would like to spend time with you.
When did it become so difficult to pick a time, a date and a place to meet? We could get ice cream, or lunch, or a beer, or go bungee jumping, hell Im open to anything. I just want to actually do something.
Hiding behind a phone screen or computer screen all day sending witty messages back and forth just isnt good enough for me and it honestly shouldnt be enough for anyone. That isnt a connection; it doesnt allow growth or a relationship to form. The only thing that does is start the process of games and prolonging the far-fetched idea of face-to-face communication and a proper date.
And if you dont want to take me out on a date, dont talk to me! Holy shit, a brilliant idea.
I dont want to waste my time and energy trying to seem appealing to someone who doesnt have interest in me. I dont want to try and come up with conversation and interesting topics to talk about. I have other things Id rather be doing if the relationship is going no where in your mind.
And if you actually are interested, ask me out on a D A T E. Its not that hard. Most girls are laid back, they are down to do most things, they just want to know what to wear, how to prepare and theyll be excited you actually took initiative. All they really was is to spend time with you, they want to get to know you and see the kind of person you really are.
Games arent fun, texting isnt fun, but getting to know a person face-to-face can be really fun. You can build a way stronger connection in person than you ever can over messaging.
No one wants to be asked to . In all honesty, what does that even mean? Ask us out, tell us a date and time, if we cant make it we will ask you if we can move it. Being asked out is an amazing feeling, when someone properly does it. It means he is serious, it means he is actually interested and he has confidence. Which is AMAZING.
Im not asking you to buy me a house, Im not asking you to cook me a gourmet meal, or show up doing back flips.
If it doesnt go well, you move on. If it goes well, great, we can see where it goes. Either way a date isnt going to kill you.
No one likes rejection, but I can almost guarantee if she has been spending time talking to you and throwing hints out, there is almost a one hundred percent chance she will go out with you. So, man up and ask her on the date already! She will automatically think more of you.